We're Officially Living in Texas

It's been hard to write about the process of moving. Which is why this post is coming 2 months after the first one. Dave lived in Texas for 2 months with his brother, while I stayed behind in Tulsa. He adjusted to living in a new city, learning the ropes of his new job, and setting new goals that involve us living in Texas. I stayed in Tulsa. Feeling like I was in limbo; dealing with the feelings of trying to figure out who I am without the definition of a job title. Too much time on my hands and trying to wrap my mind around leaving my family, friends, and the city I was raised in.

On Friday we officially moved to Texas. Our apartment is almost setup and I'm learning the ropes of Grapevine, Texas. Which by the way is the self proclaimed Christmas Capital of Texas. Thankfully, I've started developing my bubble in the city and figuring out where several important shops are like groceries, gym, and The Container Store.

The dogs took no time to adjust to apartment living; as far as they're concerned, they receive three times as many walks. We found a nice dog park close by so they'll be visiting that frequently.

I'm still job hunting. I struggle with trying to hold out finding the right job and taking something so I feel like I'm a contributing member of the household. I look forward to meeting new people, even though I have no idea how we're going to achieve that. And while this process hasn't been easy, I know its the right one for us. Dave is doing great with his new job and once I find one, I think we'll slide right into Grapevine, TX life.

The Dating Game

Dave started his new job on Monday. It's been a bit of struggle trying to get know the new ropes and streets. I've stayed behind to get the house ready for our open house on Sunday. During that time, I've also been job hunting. This whole process reminds of the dating scene.

The Flirt

You send out your resume. You know you're a good catch. Others tell you you're a good catch. You bat your eyes to a few prospects knowing that they want you. You increase your flirting by moving more around the room to mingle. Who knows, maybe Mr. Right Job for You is out there, but you were stuck by the pretzel bowl being polite to Mr. Not If My Life Depended On It.

The Wingman

The best partner to have in any search. In the dating world, the wingman either introduces you to the prospect or helps nab the attention of their friends. In the job hunt world, your wingman is a networker. The more people they know, the more people they can introduce to you.

The Wait

The worst part of job hunting and dating. When are they going to call? You keep your phone near. Make sure it works. You check multiple times that you gave out the right number. Why aren't they calling? I mean they've had your number since yesterday, don't they want you?

I started my job hunt this past Sunday. So far, I'm flirting, waiting, and trying to make connections. I haven't heard from any serious prospects. I'm not worried, but more anxious. I don't do well waiting and wondering.